Understanding What Teenage Gigi Love Is

By Joseph Snyder


Many teenagers are those who end up the mistake misunderstanding other people feelings so much that they start telling themselves that the boy or girl they are dating is in love with them, or at least they feel they love them. It is something they normally get wrong most of the time since they are not in a position to tell the difference between Gigi Love, lust and infatuation. This could occur as they go through the crucial stages of life.

So if a young guy proposes a girl, you can assume that the relationship is unbalanced. Each person will be trying to care about the other, but still not at the price of one's sacrifice of wishes. And even it so happens a few times; there will a time a person has enough. It is true that it has some positives. The young ones learn to be considerate of other person feelings. They learn about relationships. They learn that we can still be happy after a broken relationship.

Yet I'll say that the disadvantages outweigh advantages. Because as they do everything, they will be passionate about this. They give it a name " affection, " more importantly, " first affection." So when it eventually dies, they are disillusioned. They believe that they'll never forget their first affection and even if they enter into new relationships, they will now be afraid of giving it 100%. Professionally, they end up making sacrifices for their so-called better half.

If her boy friend is studying in Mumbai, she too will shift to Mumbai, notwithstanding her previous dreams or career ambitions. Yet, they are not satisfied. If they sacrifice, they feel as if they missed an opportunity. If they say don't sacrifice, they may break up, thus feeling guilty that they were selfish. If they think of long distance relationship, they end up insecure. Many times, people lose beautiful opportunities, once in a life time opportunities. They end up hating themselves.

When you can't like yourself, you can't affection anyone else. If you are peaceful with yourself, you can affection any person wholeheartedly. So every teenager should make his career his priority leaving no place for regrets.

If you affection a girl, then make her your best friend so that you both watch the changes in each other, physically, mentally. And when you are set in your career, see if you are still in affection. If yes. Go ahead. If no, you've got a best friend. See, the next result would be a best friend or a life partner. It is a win-win situation.

This does not mean that they shouldn't happen, or even be pursued. They should be taken on with some boundaries that will help define how far they are willing to go before knowing where they are going. Adding sex to young love will complicate it and could give the illusion that now the relationship has to last, or all will be lost.

Communication is the only key to raise happy teens. Look out for their special talents like playing the keyboard or organizing a dog show. It is amazing to note their affection for trees and also let them do their bit for the society. Look through their eyes and the colors of the rainbow appear the same - except brighter.




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